CHANGE IT NOW.

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I am writing this same post for the third time today because it keeps deleting itself after spending a lot of time to write it, it is annoying and I feel like crying write now but I am going to take the pain to write it again.

Some of us usually make the mistake of procrastinating issues we ought to handle immediately, there are cases that should be treated instantly especially when it has to do with issues of relationships.


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There are ladies who feel that their man will naturally change some bad attitude after they get married, so they leave a lot of issues pending until that time(when it is almost impossible to change him).

There are guys who also feel that marriage will give them an edge over the relationship, therefore every correction should be postponed until that time.
However, these issues that we leave to pend until marriage always have a way of affecting the marriage as well as the kids involved
As a matter of personal opinion, I feel every correction that could be made, should be made immediately and this will prevent future problems.
What is your opinion concerning these issue, let me know what you feel through the comment section.
Stay loved and beautiful, I am @tobi.

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I believed whatsoever issue arise from relationship should be solved immediately, why postponing might lead the couple to separation which one is trying to avoid. i and you were not born from the same parent, background and home, so we must have individual difference and what can really put ends to issue between man and woman relationship is for the pair to respect and tolerate individual difference.

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That's correct.

There is a Chinese Proverb that says - 'It is easier to move a mountain than to change a person's character.' Just imagine how hard it is for you to change, you will understand how hard it is to change someone or for someone to change.

Why do you want someone to change anyway? And why should he or her want to change. If there is something you don't like about him or her, then you both cannot click. It is better to let the relationship go. Or, understand his/her flaws and accept them without question. Accept them and love them for who they are.

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The only lever that changes a person is love, but it is better to do something than to regret the rest of your life, which you could and did not do.

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What is love? Do people still love nowadays? Do people love enough to change?

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Of course,people still fall in love. I must only admit that it is rare.

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Love is a feeling inside a person, it is almost impossible to describe it, to understand it you need to feel, akin to flying above the ground, alas, not everyone is able to do it for certain reasons.
But people love and change

There is no need to harbor illusions, if there are questions to a person before marriage, then after him they will either worsen or lead to a rupture, there will be no "in the future." Questions should be addressed now and should live now. This is not advice, this is my point of view, due to some life experience.

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You are absolutely correct @gor671.